Strip Tease - Advice From A Nude Dancer

"For example, she's multi-orgasmic. She once had 23 orgasms during a single sex session, and you can bet not all of them came from the cock plunging in and out of her pussy. "I always tell people, 'Your biggest sex organ is your brain," Maxi said. "You have to relax and enjoy sex and put yourself in a mental place where you can let every part of yourself go. That's why so many women don't have orgasms, because they don't know how to relax their minds and let the body be free enough to enjoy what's going on, but the man has to help. If your partner's satisfied, you'll be satisfied."

Of course, one look at Maxi tells you that women are very different from men and need to be treated differently. Yeah, she knows, you're a guy, and you're ready for sex at the drop of a hat. You'd have to be standing in the middle of Times Square in broad daylight to refuse a blowjob. Shoot your load? No problem. But things are different with most women. "Some women you have to coax," Maxi said. "I don't know if we have too much going on in our heads or too many hormones, but it's a lot harder for a woman to relax than a man. "I can be ready at the drop of a hat. Just lick it and let's go. Not all women are that way."

"There are no general rules for this, but most women like to be licked and touched all over. Tease us a little, just like you like to be teased. Work your tongue up and down our inner thighs, trace your tongue around the edge of our pussy lips. Be all over the place! Don't concentrate on any one area for too long at first. Let us know you're enjoying what you're doing, that even though you want to make us cum, you're having fun, too. "There was a comedian, I think it was Sam Kinnison, who said, 'Do the alphabet with your tongue over her pussy," and it really works. Do the letter A with your tongue, then go through the whole alphabet, tracing the letters over her labia and clit with your tongue, and I guarantee she'll start moving. I like all the letters done to me, but you know what's really good? I like 'I.' Just up and down. And I like Z. A mixture of I and Z together and I have an orgasm!"

"A lot of professional pussy-eating experts warn against direct and constant clitoral contact, but again, Maxi believes there are no absolute rules. "You have to find out what satisfies your woman," she said. "For me, it's a combination of everything. I can cum from the clit, I can cum from down lower, I can cum from fingers inside. Some women have a hard time cumming inside. Just experiment, have some fun with it. Don't stick with one standard way. You can even have oral sex doggy style, just get her ass in the air and go after her pussy. Tongue her asshole while you're at it. Why settle for one, boring position? Spice it up!"

Some final words of advice from "Oralsexus Maximus":

1. Use sex toys during oral sex. "Many men think, 'If I can't please her and the toy can, then where's my manhood?'" Maxi said. "Ridiculous. Being open to letting your woman enjoy herself makes you more of a man than not letting her enjoy herself because you're worried about not being a man."
2. When she's sucking your cock-and she will if you treat her right-don't run if she sticks a finger up your ass. "If you're okay with your sexuality, then you don't have to worry about whether you're gay," Maxi said. "If a woman sticks a finger up a man's ass, that does not mean he's gay. Let her keep going at your ass with a dildo or her fingers while she's sucking you off. I guarantee, you will totally enjoy it." Maxi says enjoyable oral sex is one of the keys to total sexual pleasure. "It doesn't have to be the setup," she said. "It can be the best part."

Maxi Mounds is a regular contributor to Score Magazine, producers of Scoreland and Voluptuous wesbites.

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